Transphobia is bullshit!

Seriously what the hell is wrong with transphobes?

Not a day goes by that I don't see mountains of hate online from transphobes. In fact, I would say that all transphobes are mentally ill, and obsessive about us. This goes for all trans people, women and men. No matter what, we get shit from people that seem to want to preserve gender norms.

What I don't understand is why they care so much about these outdated views on gender. What your gender identity is, really doesnt matter in the grand scheme of things. Honeslty a lot of these people have horrible misconseptions on what being trans is. They seem to think that we, are faking being this other gender. No most of us will at least socially transition, and act like our chosen gender. But this whole Idea of feminine and masculine is so outdate. You can be feminine and still have your identity as a man. I just feel like a woman, and I have many aspects of myself that are both feminine and masculine.

Also, most transphobes seem to not understand that when we medically transition, we become really close to our target gender. Hormones wise I am a woman. I have a cycle that happens every month or so, with stomach sickness and cramps. The way illnesses effect me are the way they effect women. I get the same catcalling, and sexual harassment that cis women get, because I pass pretty well. To all my female friends I am just a woman.

There really is no reason for anyone to get upset. Of course, there can be shitty trans people. But, there are shitty people of pretty much any type of group. I am just glad that while the transphobes online are so vocal, they are only a tiny number. So many cis women and men support me for who I am. To them I am just a woman, and no matter how I present they don't really care as long as I am happy.

I hope that all these transphobes I see online, and sometimes in person, get the help that they need. They are mentally ill, and are hurting themselves, and the people around them. Especially with how they vote. I hope that transphobia, and all phobias of people will one day go away. Until then I will still have depression and caffine to keep me going. Have a good evening divas.

- Valerie Vee-

June 24th 2026